Quality rather than appearances
You begin to change your thinking from appearances and how things look and how other people view me.
Because every time you find yourself in life upset about something that someone said, what you are really saying is what you think of me is more important than what I think of me.
Change from appearances to “quality” thinking.
Just because someone doesn’t like you it doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you, yet many worry about things like that
Stop seeking approval
You gotta understand that another person’s opinions is just that, an opinion.
Approval is fine, there’s nothing wrong with it. We like it.
But there’s a big difference between wanting approval and needing approval.
When you need approval you become immobilized when you don’t get it.
The people who get the most approval in life are the ones who care the least about it
The ones who get the least approval are the ones who are going after it.
So if you want approval, stop needing it. Stop concerning yourself about it.
Ask yourself, who gets the most approval in life? Think about it and you will see that they can care less about what other people think about them. They are so busy BEING, they don’t have time to notice what they neighbors are doing.
If you advance confidently in the direction of your own dreams and endeavor to live the life which you have imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours – Henry David Thoreau